So What Do You Do When He's Not Out There?

And realistically, he's probably not. Sometimes I figure "well no big deal, I can just have a few encounters, meet some nice people and have a bit of fun along the way. That's enough." I tell myself. Other times I think "oh how sad, there really is no soul mate for me." Just at the moment I'm engaged in a light to moderate pity party. It'll pass but for now, poor me!